题目内容：

I learned all about taking responsibility from my mother’s tough love. My mom had a wonderful way of helping you        up and realize that your life is going to be what you make it.

She had this circular way of      you took responsibility for your decisions and the person you would      . She would say,“ It' s your      .”      “What you want and what you get are sometimes two       different things.” And then, “No one ever said life was fair.” And she would      these comments together in such a way that you could never      an argument, and yet, the      was that you realized your life is going to be what you make it.

So I might go to my mom and say, “I’d like to      football”. And she would say, “Well, it's your life. If you want to go out there and get      and hurt and break your knees and limp around the rest of your life, that' s fine.” That is      I would say, “Well, you know, that won’t       . I' m really fast.” And she would reply, “Well, we don’t really have the money.” And then I would     , “Yes but that' s not fair.” And she would reply, “ Well, life isn’t      .” Then I would say, “But I’ve been itching to." And she would reply, “Yes, but what you want and what you get are usually two entirely different things.”

It was the combination of these       that allowed my mother to lead me down the right path under her      but let me feel as if I was making the decisions      my own. The sum total of that     was, in the end, you’re      for the life you lead. That' s the best advice I’ve ever gotten.

1.A. light                     B. open                                 C. grow                                 D. keep

2.A. promising                    B. ensuring                           C. ignoring                            D. noticing

3.A. protect                         B. envy                                  C. refuse                               D. become

4.A. fault                              B. life                                     C. progress                           D. turn

5.A. Then                    B. But                                    C. Now                                  D. However

6.A. increasingly                 B. approximately                 C. completely                      D. occasionally

7.A. combine                       B. remind                             C. answer                             D. publish

8.A. lose                               B. doubt                                C. win                                    D. raise

9.A. belief                            B. reason                              C. mistake                   D. result

10.A. quit                    B. play                                   C. buy                                    D. watch

11.A. beaten up                  B. dressed up                      C. divided                    D. closed up

12.A. what                            B. how                                   C. when                                D. which

13.A. fail                               B. work                                 C. last                                    D. happen

14.A. take                   B. go                             C. make                                 D. catch

15.A. fair                              B. cosy                                  C. hard                                  D. special

16.A. comments                  B. descriptions                    C. techniques                      D. messages

17.A. temper                       B. influence                         C. activity                    D. success

18.A. for                               B. on                                      C. over                                 D. beyond

19.A. mind                           B. account                            C. deal                                   D. advice

20.A. famous                       B. responsible                     C. sorry                                 D. thankful