题目内容：

It is you who are the only person that can change what you feel. A new relationship, a new house, a new car, a new job, these things can temporarily distract(转移) you from your ______, but no other person, no material possession, no activity can remove, release, or ______ how you feel. How often do you ______ people say things like “when I have enough ______, I won’t be afraid anymore”, only to find there never seems to be enough money to ______ being afraid. Or “when I’m in a secure relationship I won’t ______ lonely any more”, and finding they are still ______ regardless of their relationship. We need to _____ that we take our feelings with us _______we go. A new dress, a new house, a new job, none of these things change how we feel. Our feelings ______ within us until we release them.

You can not change or ______ your emotions. You can learn how to ______ with them, living peacefully with them, releasing them, and you can manage them, but you _______ control them.

Think of the people who go along day after day seeming to function normally, and all of a sudden they will ______ in anger at something that seems relatively little and ______.

That is one sign of someone who is trying to control or repress(压抑) their _____ but their repressed emotions are ______. The more anyone tries to control their emotions, the _______ they resist control, and the more frightened people ______ become at what is seen to be a “______ of emotional control”. It is a vicious(恶性的)circle.

1.A. belongings    B. earnings    C. surroundings    D. feelings

2.A. change    B. make    C. interrupt    D. abstract

3.A. watch    B. notice    C. hear    D. listen

4.A. courage    B. confidence    C. possessions    D. money

5.A. improve    B. stop    C. continue    D. suggest

6.A. feel    B. live    C. keep    D. have

7.A. desperate    B. lonely    C. helpless    D. careful

8.A. appreciate    B. admire    C. unfold    D. understand

9.A. whatever    B. however    C. wherever    D. whichever

10.A. remain    B. leave    C. fade    D. keep

11.A. waste    B. exchange    C. ruin    D. control

12.A. agree    B. do    C. be    D. help

13.A. cannot    B. wouldn’t    C. shouldn’t    D. had better not

14.A. calm    B. enjoy    C. function    D. explode

15.A. huge    B. giant    C. harmless    D. beneficial

16.A. emotions    B. wealth    C. actions    D. characters

17.A. fading away    B. leaving out    C. leaking out    D. going through

18.A. less    B. more    C. fewer    D. higher

19.A. thoroughly    B. eventually    C. completely    D. hopefully

20.A. loss    B. handle    C. victory    D. way