题目内容：

    You may be surprised to see “making sure children never suffer” as a mistake.  The following ____may help you understand how rescuing children from all suffering________weakness.

A little boy felt sorry for a butterfly_______ to emerge from its chrysalis(蛹). He decided to________the butterfly. So he peeled (剥开) the chrysalis open for the butterfly. The little boy was so________to watch the butterfly spread its wings and fly off into the sky.  Then he was horrified________he watched the butterfly fall to the ground and die because it did not have the muscle________to keep flying. In fact, the butterfly’s struggle to________the chrysalis helps the butterfly become stronger.

Like the little boy, ________too often want to protect their children from struggle in the________of love. They don’t realize that their children need to struggle, to experience_______. To deal with disappointment,  and to solve their own problems. Only in this way can children________their emotional strength, become   _____and develop the skills necessary for the even bigger struggles they will meet throughout their lives. Children experiencing sufferings can_______the ups and downs of life.

However, it isn’t helpful either in this case when parents________lectures(训斥), blame and shame to what the child is experiencing. Mothers ________to say, “Stop crying and acting like a spoiled boy. You can’t always get what you want.” These________words should be avoided.

Instead, parents can offer loving support. You can say, “Don’t lose_______. Be brave! You will succeed if you try again. ” Then comes the tough part-no________and no lectures. Simply allow him to discover that he can get over his disappointment and________what he can do to get what he wants in the future.

1.A. story B. proverb C. saying D. experiment

2.A. damages B. burns C. creates D. experiences

3.A. turning B. struggling C. devoting D. coming

4.A. kill B. feed C. help D. rescue

5.A. moved B. excited C. puzzled D. depressed

6.A. until B. since C. before D. as

7.A. power B. energy C. strength D. force

8.A. come up with B. do away with C. get along with D. break away from

9.A. teachers B. parents C. relatives D. friends

10.A. case B. charge C. name D. course

11.A. friendships B. scholarships C. relationships D. hardships

12.A. strengthen B. require C. get D. achieve

13.A. warm-hearted B. strong-willed C. absent-mind D. cold-blooded

14.A. expect B. predict C. survive D. avoid

15.A. add B. adapt C. devote D. contribute

16.A. pretend B. happen C. tend D. seem

17.A. discouraging B. inspiring C. interesting D. touching

18.A. face B. heart C. sight D. weight

19.A. parking B. smoking C. drinking D. rescuing

20.A. carry out B. figure out C. rule out D. drop out