题目内容：

Here are those five things you should NEVER say or do to your spouse (配偶)

● It’s your fault! Sometimes, a financial decision goes bad, one of your children gets in trouble at school, or some household disaster occurs. And know this — things do go bad from time to time in any relationship. 1.

● I told you so! 2. There is no need to remind your spouse that you were right about something and they were wrong. Talk about wasted criticism!

● Saying “I am upset with you about this or that…” in a public setting. Telling private secrets or criticizing your spouse in public or to someone else can do permanent damage to the trust in your relationship. 3.

● Why do you always… Focusing on your spouse’s weakness rather than building on their strengths will only increase their weakness and diminish their strength. 4.

● 5. If you ask where your spouse wants lo go to dinner and he/she suggests a couple of places, then you select a different one, by your actions you said, “I do not respect your opinion and don’t care what you think!”

A. Trust us on this—these four words are rarely ever used in successful marriages.

B. Stick with the strengths and don’t focus on weakness.

C. Develop the same interest and try to share the same opinion.

D. Belief can help solve many problems.

E. Keep private things private.

F. But the blame game never works!

G. Ask for your spouse’s opinion and then do the opposite.