题目内容：

    1.Your skills and attitude play a major role in the outcome. Knowing what you can do to have an advantage can make the difference between success and failure.

My kids tell me it’s unfair to play with the big children. I tell them that’s right. Unfairness is a good thing. There is more to be gained by the effort when things seem unfair. It’s true that many things in the world are unfair.2.For example, the early bird catches the worm. It’s unfair that the bird that sleeps in misses out on breakfast but it’s nice to know that if it gets up early it’s sure to get the worm.

I always try to explain to my kids that complaining about how unfair something is will get them nowhere.3.Once you do that you are in the advantage. Above all, you have to focus on gaining that unfair advantage and in order to do that, build your inner strength. When you empower yourself, you are gaining skills or abilities, confidence and self-esteem (自尊).4. Where do you want to be financially, spiritually, emotionally, and physically? You are creating your own story when you empower yourself.

5.If you haven’t yet, you need to make a list of all the things you want to experience in your new life. This will help you focus on building advantages so that you never have to say that it’s Not Fair. When you do this then you will be able to realize that unfairness is a good thing and you will want to teach those around you to see unfairness in this way too.

A.You should look at your place in the world.

B.Instead, make the most of it and get on the other side of it.

C.Therefore, the best way to deal with unfairness is to change it.

D.You can build all the advantages that you need to live the life that you want.

E.But unfair things usually benefit you.

F.Only when you know your advantages can you have more confidence.

G.The playing field is never fair or equal.