题目内容：

Encouraging your high school student to do their best isn't as hard as you may think.It does take time and effort, but it should become part of a daily routine that both you and your teen can enjoy more than dread.1.This is excellent dinner table conversation if you can keep it light and positive.And these suggestions can help you along:

◆Set the expectations.

Teens need a clear map of what you want them to do.You wouldn't do your teen any favors by not telling him/her what grades you'll be expecting.Send a clear message to your teen about the grades you expect to see in each class.2.Keep your expectations in line with what your teen feels he/she can do.

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While your teen will need to keep his/her goals in line with your expectations,he/she may need your assistance. Learning to establish goals teaches independence,one of the things your teen needs to learn to become a successful adult.Have what they need at home,or a way to get it.Resources are important for high school students.Your family should have library cards and a way to access the Internet for homework.4.It's also a good idea to set up a mobile homework center.

◆Stay involved.

Show support for your teen's school by attending parents' nights and other activities or functions.Sign up for the school's online grade reports and/or have a list of teacher's email addresses.Always be respectful to your teen's teachers.5.Learning in a classroom is a two-way street.Please be your teen's advocate when necessary.

A.Help him/her set goals.

B.Praise your teen for a job well done.

C.You can talk to your teen about school.

D.But don't be afraid to ask them tough questions.

E.Without these things,your teen could be at a disadvantage.

F.Set consequences for poor grades as well as rewards for good grades.

G.Tell your teen school is just the beginning and gaining knowledge should be enjoyed.