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请认真阅读下面短文，从短文后各题所给的A、B、C、D四个选项中，选出最佳选项。

Human growth is a process of experimentation，trial，and error eventually leading to wisdom．Each time you choose to trust yourself and take action，you can never quite be certain how the situation will ____．

Sometimes you are victorious，and sometimes you become disappointed．The ____ experiments，however，are no less valuable than the experiments that finally prove successful; in fact，you ____ learn more from your “failures” than you do from your ____．If you have made what you think to be a mistake or failed to live up to your own ____， you will most likely put up a barrier between your essence and the part of you that is the alleged (声称的) wrong­doer．

However，viewing past actions as ____ implies guilt and blame，and it is not possible to learn anything meaning while you are engaged in blaming．___， forgiveness is required when you are severely judging yourself．Forgiveness is the act of erasing an ___ debt．There are four kinds of forgiveness．

The first is beginner forgiveness for yourself．

The second of forgiveness is beginner forgiveness for another．

The third kind of forgiveness is ____ forgiveness of yourself．This is for serious misbehaviors，the ones you carry with deep ____．When you do something that violates your own values and principles，you create a gap between your standards and your actual ____．

In such a case，you need to work very hard at ____ yourself for these deeds so that you can close this gap．This does not ____ that you should rush to forgive yourself or shouldn't feel regret，___ taking pleasure in these feelings for a prolonged period of time is not healthy．

The __   and perhaps most difficult one is the advanced forgiveness of another．

At some time of our life，you may have been severely wronged or hurt by another person to such a degree that forgiveness seems ____．

However，harboring anger and revenge fantasies only keeps you ____ in victimhood．Under such a circumstance，you should force yourself to see the bigger picture．By so doing，you will be able to ____ the focus away from the anger and resentment．

It is only through forgiveness that you can erase wrongdoing and ____ the memory．When you can     release the situation，you may come to see it as a necessary part of your growth．

1.A．turn out    B．turn up       C．break up       D．break out

2.A．important   B．engaged       C．failed         D．successful

3.A．obviously   B．necessarily   C．continuously   D．usually

4.A．success     B．failure       C．fault          D．benefit

5.A．ability     B．expectations  C．belief         D．experiences

6.A．mistakes    B．victories     C．experiments    D．fantasies

7.A．Still       B．Therefore     C．Instead        D．However

8.A．absurd      B．original      C．emotional      D．unusual

9.A．ordinary    B．advanced      C．alternative    D．certain

10.A．wisdom     B．mercy         C．injury         D．shame

11.A．thought    B．approach      C．behavior       D．purpose

12.A．punishing  B．forgiving     C．blaming        D．praising

13.A．mean       B．prove         C．reflect        D．represent

14.A．and        B．or            C．but            D．so

15.A．uncertain  B．premier       C．next           D．last

16.A．essential  B．valuable      C．impossible     D．unavoidable

17.A．trapped    B．located       C．lost           D．occupied

18.A．drive      B．drag          C．put            D．shift

19.A．keep       B．refresh       C．weaken         D．clean

20.A．naturally  B．finally       C．definitely     D．initially