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the difference between men and women!
Men feel they are loved when needed,but for women,they feel that when cherished.Since man’s sense of self is defined through his success and accomplishment,they express their love by giving presents.The levels of love are proportional to the presents’ values.In contrast,a woman’s sense of self is defined through her feelings and the quality of her relationships.They express their love by sharing and they empathize on their emotions.If men and women do not understand each other,arguments may be resulted.For example,a woman likes to share with her husband when she is upset and she thinks it is a way to express her love.However,if a man misinterpreted and so he empathizes on giving solutions or change her view due to the hope to be ‘useful’ and ‘needed’,despite the hard work involved,he will be upset by the negative response from her.There are many examples in this book to explain this point.At this moment,men should listen patiently to let his partner know she is being cared and loved.
The different ways to solve the problems.
Because of different self definitions,men like to solve problems alone but women are opposite.Men do not like unsolicited advice from others since they think they must be ‘useful’.However,women think that sharing their problems can solve the problems,so they are strange about the rejection of advice for men.For example,if a man gets lost,he does not want his partner to give him advice,but he wants to do his best to achieve the goal.This gives him sense of achievement.In this book,the author empathizes on this point in various chapters.It is one of the most important points in maintaining a good relationship between both sexes.
The way of using language.
To fully express their feelings,women assume poetic license and use various superlatives,metaphors and generalizations.They usually use extreme words to express their feelings.However,men may analyze the words logically and so they may misinterpret what women say.Due to the misunderstanding,conflicts may be resulted.In this book,it provides a ‘Translation dictionary’ to help couples understand their different languages.
My afterthought in association with my practical experience.
In my personal experience,I think what the author writes is true,even for unmarried men and women.As a man,it is really no use to give solutions to my female friends if they express their problems like the difficulties in studying and the relationships with their schoolmates.They will ignore my advice if I do so,and I really feel unhappy at that time.After reading this book,now I know the reason behind – they do not want my advice,they just only want to share their problems and my listening ears only.They will solve their problems on their own.
Lastly,the book also provides some practical skills to create and maintain a good relationship,such as how to avoid arguments,how to satisfy the partners’ emotional needs and motivate them,how to communicate difficult feelings and how to ask for and get support.
Conclusion
Men and women need different kinds of love.Women need caring,understanding,respect,devotion,validation and reassurance.On the other hand,men need trust,acceptance,appreciation,admiration,approval and encouragement.To avoid conflicts between two sexes,we cannot be demanding,resentful,judgmental and intolerant.Otherwise,they lead to mistrust,rejection and repression.The magic of love is then lost.
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Men feel they are loved when needed,but for women,they feel that when cherished.Since man’s sense of self is defined through his success and accomplishment,they express their love by giving presents.The levels of love are proportional to the presents’ values.In contrast,a woman’s sense of self is defined through her feelings and the quality of her relationships.They express their love by sharing and they empathize on their emotions.If men and women do not understand each other,arguments may be resulted.For example,a woman likes to share with her husband when she is upset and she thinks it is a way to express her love.However,if a man misinterpreted and so he empathizes on giving solutions or change her view due to the hope to be ‘useful’ and ‘needed’,despite the hard work involved,he will be upset by the negative response from her.There are many examples in this book to explain this point.At this moment,men should listen patiently to let his partner know she is being cared and loved.
The different ways to solve the problems.
Because of different self definitions,men like to solve problems alone but women are opposite.Men do not like unsolicited advice from others since they think they must be ‘useful’.However,women think that sharing their problems can solve the problems,so they are strange about the rejection of advice for men.For example,if a man gets lost,he does not want his partner to give him advice,but he wants to do his best to achieve the goal.This gives him sense of achievement.In this book,the author empathizes on this point in various chapters.It is one of the most important points in maintaining a good relationship between both sexes.
The way of using language.
To fully express their feelings,women assume poetic license and use various superlatives,metaphors and generalizations.They usually use extreme words to express their feelings.However,men may analyze the words logically and so they may misinterpret what women say.Due to the misunderstanding,conflicts may be resulted.In this book,it provides a ‘Translation dictionary’ to help couples understand their different languages.
My afterthought in association with my practical experience.
In my personal experience,I think what the author writes is true,even for unmarried men and women.As a man,it is really no use to give solutions to my female friends if they express their problems like the difficulties in studying and the relationships with their schoolmates.They will ignore my advice if I do so,and I really feel unhappy at that time.After reading this book,now I know the reason behind – they do not want my advice,they just only want to share their problems and my listening ears only.They will solve their problems on their own.
Lastly,the book also provides some practical skills to create and maintain a good relationship,such as how to avoid arguments,how to satisfy the partners’ emotional needs and motivate them,how to communicate difficult feelings and how to ask for and get support.
Conclusion
Men and women need different kinds of love.Women need caring,understanding,respect,devotion,validation and reassurance.On the other hand,men need trust,acceptance,appreciation,admiration,approval and encouragement.To avoid conflicts between two sexes,we cannot be demanding,resentful,judgmental and intolerant.Otherwise,they lead to mistrust,rejection and repression.The magic of love is then lost.
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