题目内容：

Human growth is a process of experimentation, trial, and error eventually leading to wisdom. Each time you choose to trust yourself and take action, you can never quite be certain how the situation will _________ .

Sometimes you are victorious, and sometimes you become disappointed. The__________ experiments, however, are no less valuable than the experiments that finally prove successful; in fact, you_____ learn more from your “failures” than you do from your _________ . If you have made what you think to be a mistake or failed to live up to your own _____ , you will most likely put up a barrier between your essence and the part of you that is the alleged (声称的) wrong-doer.

However, viewing past actions as _______ implies guilt and blame, and it is not possible to learn anything meaningful while you are engaged in blaming. _________ , forgiveness is required when you are severely judging yourself. Forgiveness is the act of erasing an________ debt. There are four kinds of forgiveness.

The first is beginner forgiveness for yourself. The second kind of forgiveness is beginner forgiveness for another.

The third kind of forgiveness is _________ forgiveness of yourself. This is for serious misbehaviors, the ones you carry with deep _____  . When you do something that violates your own values and principles, you create a gap between your standards and your actual _________ .

In such a case, you need to work very hard at ___________yourself for these deeds so that you can close this gap. This does not _______ that you should rush to forgive yourself or shouldn’t feel regret, _______taking pleasure in these feelings for a prolonged（延长）period of time is not healthy.

The __________and perhaps most difficult one of the advanced forgiveness of another. At some time of our life, you may have been severely wronged or hurt by another person to such a degree that forgiveness seems _________  .

However, harboring（心怀）anger and revenge fantasies only keeps you _______  in victimhood. （受害状态）. Under such a circumstance, you should force yourself to see the bigger picture. By doing do, you will be able to__________ the focus away from the anger and resentment. It is only through forgiveness that you can erase wrongdoing and _________ the memory. When you can ________ release the situation, you may come to see it as a necessary part of your growth.

1.A. turn up    B. turn out    C. break up    D. break out

2.A. important    B. engaged    C. failed    D. successful

3.A. obviously    B. necessarily    C. continuously    D. usually

4.A. success    B. failure    C. fault    D. benefit

5.A. ability    B. expectations    C. belief    D. experiences

6.A. mistakes    B. victories    C. experiments    D. fantasies

7.A. Still    B. Therefore    C. Instead    D. However

8.A. abnormal    B. original    C. emotional    D. unusual

9.A. ordinary    B. advanced    C. alternative    D. certain

10.A. wisdom    B. mercy    C. injury    D. shame

11.A. thought    B. approach    C. behavior    D. purpose

12.A. punishing    B. forgiving    C. blaming    D. praising

13.A. mean    B. prove    C. reflect    D. represent

14.A. and    B. or    C. but    D. so

15.A. uncertain    B. previous    C. next    D. last

16.A. unbelievable    B. unavoidable    C. impossible    D. valuable

17.A. trapped    B. located    C. lost    D. occupied

18.A. drive    B. drag    C. put    D. shift

19.A. keep    B. refresh    C. weaken    D. clean

20.A. naturally    B. finally    C. definitely    D. initially